The Cinderella story of happily ever after might be a fairy tale but is it possible to have a happily ever after in this life? Yes it is, when marriage is submerged in God, we will have a happily ever after. It takes continuous renewing, reviving and rediscovering yourselves by spending quality time with each other. Making time to take care of oneself is very important, not only as individuals but also as couples. A lot of times men and women worry about their families(especially their children) so much that they forget, they too are human beings that need to be taken care of. These Children are blessings and not problems. Taking care of our children is an every day job but we have to make out time for ourselves and enjoy this life God has given to us. Our marriage is suppose to be a blessing(proverbs 18 verse 22 The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the LORD NLT) so should be cherished. Also our Children when born into a Godly family becomes God’s priority and he will mold them with the good examples we show them by building a strong marriage made stronger in God. Ecclesiastes 4 verse 12 said it all (A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.)NLT
Our Marriage is the tree that produces the fruits (our children) and also should nurture them(children) to growth and development. We are very important in the lives of our children so every time we spend with each other to have a happy and blessed marriage is of great worth. Spending beautiful time with ones spouse, feels great and makes the bond stronger and it offers us opportunity to thank God for what we have and appreciate our marriage. It doesn’t necessarily have to involve traveling distances but being together away from family for a short time solely to enjoy, revive and rediscover yourselves. We should not forget that one day these children will leave us to start their own family. Also our happiness sends message to our Children that we love each other and really want to be with one another. They will unconsciously look forward to a happy marriage like ours.
Spend quality time with your spouse and you will have beautiful memories to cherish.