Can people Change?

I have always been easily upset about things around me. When I was growing up, I did not like my things taken without my permission, I feel they think I cannot stop them from taking my things; I got angry when my younger ones refuse to take instructions and very sad when things don’t turn out the way I want them, I was always moody. I lived in a house full of people, that includes my brothers and sister, my cousins and some sales boys that worked for my Dad. Everyday, I will surely be upset about something and there was nothing so miserable like being unhappy.

When one is sad, you emit bad energy,  you fall sick easily, you are always alone and unfortunately sad things follow you everywhere (I think is more of ones perception of events). I am a grown woman with kids now and cannot afford to live a miserable life and have decided to pursue peace and happiness with all men.

This brings me to my topic today, can people change? of course they can. First you have to be aware that something is wrong and figure out what it is. Being aware of your short comings helps you seek solutions to them.

Secondly, get help from the right place. For me I sought help in the word of God and that opened my eyes to ways and opportunities on how to find happiness. Surely the fear  (respect, continuous awareness of God’s presence, reverence ) of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the knowledge of the Holy one is understanding. Proverbs 9:10.

Thirdly, you have to be determined to change. Changing is not always easy but you have to make up your mind about it.

Fourthly, this one cannot be overemphasized, you need to develop a positive attitude towards this change. You have to see it as a positive thing in your life.

Anyone can change if they want to and are ready to take the positive step towards changing

 

 

 

 

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